This Is the Gap No One Wants to Talk About
- maryrburrell
- Jul 24
- 2 min read
Why does care disappear when we need it most?The system stops at the procedure. We don’t.
They saved my life—and then handed me discharge papers like that was the end of the story.
No roadmap.
No emotional check-in.
No tools for what comes next.
But what comes after the procedure? That’s where the real fight begins:
💔 Living with fear
🧠 Rebuilding your mind after trauma
🤕 Dealing with symptoms that don’t magically vanish
😔 Figuring out who you are now that everything’s changed

💥 Let’s talk about what no one prepares you for:
Cardiac PTSD is real.Yep, it’s a thing—and way more common than you’d think.
About 1 in 8 heart patients develop full-blown PTSD after a cardiac event.
In some cases—like sudden diagnosis, valve surgery, or being dismissed for months—it’s even higher.
Symptoms can include flashbacks, panic attacks, fear of it happening again, trouble sleeping, and just feeling… off.
It doesn’t matter if your heart was "fixed."If your mind is still in survival mode, recovery feels impossible.
And here’s the kicker: most people never get screened for it.No one pulls you aside and says,
“Hey, if you feel anxious, depressed, or scared—it’s not weakness. It’s trauma.”
We Deserve Better.
We need care that follows us after the OR.That sees us not just as patients—but as whole people.
🫶 Support that sticks around
🧠 Mental health care that starts when the procedure ends
📲 Tools that help track the full picture—not just your vitals
👂 And doctors who know healing goes beyond the body
The valve gave me life.But community, compassion, and connection?That gave me the will to live it.
We’re not just trying to survive anymore.We want to thrive.
So let’s build care that helps us do both.



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